Scissors ✂️

Written On This Day In 2016

I've Gotten Very Good At Going It Alone And Have Learned Definitively That I Can't Depend On Anyone But God And Myself, So, Please Believe Me When I Tell You I Have No Need To Stay Connected Or Attached To People Who Offer Me Nothing Positive, Bring No Value, Goodness Or Kindness To My Life Or Have No Integrity. I'm In The Season Of Reciprocity And My Cut Off Game, Both On And Offline, Is #Strong 💪🏽:

Bad Friends? Cutting You Off. Shady? Cutting You Off. Flaky? Cutting You Off. Don't Honor Your Word? Cutting You Off. Pretentious? Cutting You Off. Relatives That Don't Act Like Family? Cutting You Off. Are Never There For Me When I Need You? Cutting You Off. Don't Have Good Intentions? Cutting You Off. Disloyal? Cutting You Off. Dishonest? Cutting You Off. Cause Me Intentional Harm In Word Or Deed? Cutting You Off. Project Your Crap Onto Me? Cutting You Off. No Ownership Or Accountability? Cutting You Off. Abusive Or Toxic? Cutting You Off. Passive Aggressive? Cutting You Off. Poor Communicator? Cutting You Off. Not Self Actualized And Working On You And Your Stuff? Cutting You Off. Holding Me Back? Cutting You Off. Let Me Down Consistently? Cutting You Off. 

I No Longer Have The Time Or Energy To Extend Grace For The Same Offenses Over And Over Again In The Name Of Love And History. My Life, My Time, My Peace Are Precious. So Is My Love, Loyalty And Friendship. I'll No Longer Invest Anything Precious In That Which Is Unworthy. I've Had Enough. Going Through This Nightmare Alone (Divorce) In This Unfamiliar City And Having So Few People I've Loved Well For Years Show Up For Me Even Via A Simple Returned Text Or Call Has Changed Something In Me. Permanently. I've Had Enough. If I'm Alone Anyway, I Might As Well Make It Official By Clearing My Space Of Anyone Not Contributing In A Positive Way To My Healing, Growth And Future To Make Room For What And Whoever Should Actually Be There.

If You Can't Show Up For Me When It Matters, You'll No Longer Have Access To Me At Your Convenience Or At All, Especially Once My Light Is Fully Restored. Period. This Goes For People And Entire Organizations. You're Either For Me In Real And Tangible Ways, Or, You Are Against Me. My Life No Longer Has Room For Shades Of Grey. It's All Love. But, I'm Going To Love Me More. I Will Only Carry Forward With Me That And Those Who Spark Joy. If You Don't, Thank You For Your Time, Contributions And The Lessons You Brought, But This Is A Good Goodbye. 

Be Best. ✂️💋